Finding Meaning in Diwali: A Celebration of Togetherness

Diwali has always been a festival I observed from the sidelines. I enjoy the lights, the sweets, and the festive atmosphere, but I've never really been one to dive headfirst into the celebrations. But this year, something shifted. Instead of seeing Diwali as just another festival, I started to think about what it means to the people I love—especially my mother.

At 75, my mother has deep roots in the traditions of Diwali. While I may not fully embrace all the rituals, I've realized how much this festival means to her. This year, I sat down with her and asked, "What do you want from Diwali this time?" Her answers opened my eyes not just to the festival itself but to the profound sense of connection and meaning it holds for her and our family.

1. "It's About Togetherness"


My mother's eyes lit up as she shared her childhood memories of family coming together, sharing laughter, and lighting diyas. She misses that feeling of togetherness. “I don’t need all the big celebrations,” she said, “but I miss the feeling of being with everyone.” This year, even if I don't go all out, I'm committed to ensuring we spend quality time together listening to her old stories or helping her light the diyas. It’s this togetherness that will make Diwali special.

2. "Let's Make It Simple, But Meaningful"


For my mother, Diwali isn’t about loud fireworks or extravagant parties. It’s the quiet moments she cherishes. “The lights are lovely,” she said, “but the simple rituals—like lighting diyas and saying a small prayer for peace—that matter most.” This year, I’m learning to appreciate those small moments with her. We might skip the crackers and large gatherings, but we’ll embrace the essence of Diwali—peace, light, and hope.

3. "I Just Want to Feel Connected."


At the end of our conversation, I asked her what she wanted most. Her answer was simple: “I just want to feel connected—to you, the family, and the traditions we've always valued.”

I realized then that celebrating Diwali this year isn’t about me; it’s about the joy it brings to my mother and what it symbolizes for her. The connection to family, tradition, and the light that dispels darkness is something she cherishes deeply.

While Diwali has never been a big celebration for me, this year is different. It’s not about the festival but what it means to my family, especially my mother. By asking her what she wants from Diwali, I’m discovering a deeper meaning that revolves around love, togetherness, and the light we bring to each other’s lives.

So, while I may not be a Diwali enthusiast, this year, I’m celebrating the way it matters most—by ensuring my mother feels the warmth of the festival she loves so much.